Someone is talking inside!

Okey! So today I'd like to introduce with the guy in me. Say hye! So he is always in there my mind watching, talking, commenting and listening to/on everything. He is so honest that he doesn't even stops to look whom i am talking with. It sounds bit creepy about the guy in me, but everyone has another personality in them, who always react "honestly" or more preferably "silently". We always have two reactions for circumstances, one which everybody can see, and another which everybody should see. Believe it or not but the inner personality talking is quite true but due to unfavorable circumstances we never let their voice out of our head. We sometimes make fake opinions on things because we fear that the person we are talking with might feel wrong(low, insulted, etc.). Misunderstandings always occur due to these kind of talks. Let us take a good example of a talk between a boy and her "friend",

Girl,"you like that show on TV that comes on channel U."

Boy,"yes, i know about which show you are talking about(No, definitely not)."

Girl,"i like that show, m watching that show from the time i started going to college."

Boy,"Me too(who watches TV)."

Girl,"you like 'some random character from the show'."

Boy,"don't say that you like her too(i hate TV)."

Girl,"See ya, got to go to watch that show."

Boy,"m also leaving, you see i watch it too(i should start googling that story so far)."

So in above example we can see that people pretend to show their on the spot originated interest. We can understand that boy's interest is somewhere else, but his this kind of behaviour just made that conversation long more. If boy had said what he was saying inside his head the talk would not been longed more than two sentences. But if you like any person and he/she is okay with your choice of interest, they will definitely talk to you.

Love is appreciating others for who they are inside.

Thank you for reading.
Peace out!

Respect tends to Success

According to Wikipedia, SUCCESS may refer to attainment of higher social status, achievement of goal and/or opposite of failure.

Ignoring the very common topic of "How to be successful?". Let us try to define success and keeping Indian frame of reference under consideration:

->For many PARENTS, success is defined as achievement in academics and a respectful plus good money printing job.

->For most of the TEACHERS, success is defined as first place in the race of knowledge reflecting exams.

->For NEIGHBOURHOOD, success is defined as a car plus home with a caring spouse.

So, basically, fundamentally, technically, physically, chemically, biologically and other different aspects with "-ally" suffix,

"Success is achieving wealth, respect and/or fame."

Keeping luck concept on the mind, success contents "wealth and fame" could be achieved in other ways without being called successful.
So the chemical X of success is RESPECT.

Success is incomplete without respect. Instead of being called successful, let us work for being called respectful, keeping Aim, Happiness, Wealth, Pleasure, Wisdom, Knowledge in hands.

With these quote making statement, let us give a shake on our definition of success and live our life at its full.
Thank you for reading.
Peace out.

Please do some introspection

Hi all! umm, so today there's a slight change in my writing style. As you might have noticed from the very first word that this context is written in a very personal manner as I used "I" for the first time in any of the blogs I've written. Funny! isn't it?.......no? Ah, OK, forgive me, its my first time. the idea that i am going to share today is about freedom. Ah, yes i know its a controversial topic with an ocean of different views but the question i am posing is not about the pros and cons of freedom, in fact, its about the definition of freedom! What is freedom? The first thing or one of the first things or maybe one of the top 100 things in your priority list would definitely be freedom to live your life as you wish. Hmm, impressive! As today's "modernised and civilised" youngsters say, freedom to wear whatever we want. That completely okey. you should wear whatever you want. But clothes nowadays are a symbol of style, status and coolness rather than need and comfort. They (the "modernised and civilised" teenagers) would now say that we are logical people, over 18, adult and mature enough to decide our own modesty and dressing sense. Somebody please tell me how on earth wearing a t shirt and capri during winters is logical! Oh did I forget to mention? oh, anyways, here in this context i would like to discuss only about boys! So, moving on, a few days back, there was a boom on the name of an event called "kiss of love" where hundreds or probably a couple of thousands of youngsters kissed publicaly showing their anger (or whatever they may name it) against the police who used to beat couples in parks or places they know where. So my question to you is, is this "logical"? I am not saying who is right or who is wrong (of course, nobody is wrong). The thing is, why did the police decide to take such an action? you want to know? Because of the "modernised and civilised" logical youth. Again, its not valid for all the youngsters, but majority of them are such. So, the reason! You might have visited so many parks across your city. What do you see? Greenery? Nature? Beautiful sounds of the birds chirping? The flowers? The grass covered with dew drops? NO!!!!!!! All you get to see is couples romancing and making love in the silent isolated places of the park! now, now, again these "modernised and civilised" youngsters would say that its their choice, their freedom to do whatever they like. After all, its a public property and everybody has equal rights over it. Sir, Madam, just think "logically". This is a park! not a honeymoon resort! Families come here, old people come here, children come here! And you! smooching as if there's no tomorrow. And if a bunch of desperate people record you while having your "love" then you will be the ones who will suffer. And after that, we all know! PROTESTS! oh! let me edit! protests by "modernised and civilised" youngsters. Now, again, i am not saying that the people who recorded the MMS video did no wrong! no! Instead i am saying that it is not only those bunch of people who are faulty! You are also on the same level of wrongdoing as them. No matter how much you protest, how much you pressurise, discuss, but the truth is that modesty lies in your own hands! You wanted freedom, you got freedom, and this is how you utilise freedom. Central park (Connaught place), Lodhi garden, Buddha garden, everywhere! Its all smooches and "love". And then you say we don't like India. How the hell would you like India when you yourself are not protective of your identity, your culture, your modesty? The only mantra you follow is, "I don't know about the rest, but west is the best". Just following the west and becoming their copies and degrading your own identity. This is what freedom does with you. Oh sorry! This is what you do when you are given freedom. No No No, don't think any further, i have the answer! Actually, this is not freedom! You want to know what freedom is? Freedom is to let do what is required, not what we want. To quote a friend of mine, "Freedom ke naam par har koi galat kaam hi karta hai!". So next time you talk about freedom, Ma'am, Sir, please do some introspection.
Thank you for reading.
S. A. C. Out.

0nesty

Me: hey, nice whatsapp status, it is that song *** naa?

Frnd: yep

Me: Another phrase of that song is also good!

Frnd: ( wait a minute, i was angry with you, shitt)ttyl!

Me: ahahahahahahaha, what happened?

Frnd: Nothing.( you have to make many things clear between us! )

And conversation continued.

Hello friends,
Happy Diwali on first place,
So today i would like to write about a very common thing familiar to you as a word named "Honesty". So there comes a question in my mind that,"Am i honest?".
Without answering this question i would like to know( or let you know ) that,"Honesty to who, what, whom?". So basic idea is that "be honest", but many people say that it is not that much easy to be honest to everybody, as many of us know that "some kind of" honest truth hurts. But that's not the motive, the motive is to make things clear. The longer you try to hide things in the blanket of lie, more hurtful that information becomes. Then another thing comes in mind that "Time Heals", as many of us think that if we would hide this or that from one, he/she will neglect when time leaves the topic. But the concept of "Time Healing" would work only when the hidden stuff has injured, i.e. healing works when there is a injury, fresh injury requires time not an unoriginated one. I know words confuse but the main thing is to understand the value of honesty as soon as possible.
There comes a small thought in my mind that, lets not be honest to others, lets be honest to ourself. My father used to say to me whenever he caught me wasting time, that," you son! You are not fooling me! You're fooling yourself.". The above words are quite familiar to many of us cause it is "National Dhamki" from our lovely Indian parents. So this thing is associated with me, cause I'm fooling myself, if so then i must stop making fool of myself. So from this point it is clear that to learn honesty we should start testing it on ourself.
Another example of my life comes in terms of honesty that it make us stand aside of everybody. People like/love more honest person than a liar one(Obviously). So the day i was chatting with one of my friend after long time and we were chatting normally and it was clear from our conversation that my friend was not talking normal to me.

The learning part behind that conversation was the truthfulness of my best friend. So don't hide things, even emotions just laugh it off on the person. Hiding emotions is dishonesty to yourself. So don't be Dishonest!! Especially to yourself.
Thank you!
Peace out!!✌
Editing Credits: Sohail Ahmed Choudhury

Introspection leads to self exploration

Have you ever examined your own thoughts or feelings. If we say yes, then of course next question arise, whether it actually had any impact on us, have you ever tried to analyze it. has it changed our prospects and ability to react over certain situations where we used to be in dilemma before this. If not, then certainty its not introspection, its a general thought process which one generally do when something goes wrong with them. We generally before the almighty god, tell that its going wrong with me and so on. I wonder do we do the same when something goes good with us, as we all know it better that there comes many occasions frequently when you feel delighted. Certainly not all the times. Its human nature, we never try to forget our grieves, instead we memorize and store them. On the contrary we don't capture and memorize the mesmerizing moments of our life for that long. It questions me that if thousand smiley moments cant make you smile for thousand days, then whats the logic behind crying for a single reason over that thousand days. Why don't we accept the reality and forget the topics which can only spoil our precious time, that can be enjoyed with our family and friends. Can't we have a new start. Remember, the life cycle never take a pause. Just think of the dues that should be paid off which arrives on you just the after the first second of your birth. The dues of your family, your motherland. Realize for what you have taken birth. Try a fresh start, forget the past, live the present for a memorable future. Keep working patiently for fruitful results and do keep smiling.

Thank you for reading.
Girru out!

Exams(Version 1)

Only thing in the world which is faced by each and every kind of human being existing in this world is "TESTs". It could be in any form, verbal, written, experience based, practical etc. Mostly one says that time takes test. And most of the time tests doesn't go that good than expected. This thing can be seen during a college life when a student has to give exams, whether it is sessional (mid term) or Finals. Exam acts as a mirror which shows us what we had done during our study hours. And a students like us never do what that time is meant to be. Which clearly means that we hadn't prepared for the exams. So what we do during the exam season is fun part. First thing,  we plan. And believe us or not we are damn good in planning. When someone take a glance over the plan we made to study, he/she would definitely think that these guys gonna excel. But who follows the plan. The plan was like this,  I'll read the theory part during day hours and practise practical question during night. But what happens is better explained by our invigilator who sees our dumb face during examinations. We chat, play, watch,  snooze during day hours and same of above during night hours. Because our next excuse to our self is that we'll study in morning before exam or in bus/metro. That is the only thing we do, study before exams like we are Kalidas who just turned pages and became master. And then comes our exams of the respected subject, heartbeat raises as our eyes comes in contact with question paper. We see question paper, question paper sees us. We abuse question paper silently and question paper abuses us indirectly. And in the end questions in the sheet wins and make us to go to plan B. The plan B is followed by most of the students because plan B is none other than plan "Cheat". Yeah, student's cheating preparation is quite better than studying preparation. But I'll tell you about cheating in some other post because it is quite vast topic to write on. So then those who can cheat, obviously cheats while those who can't fold there question paper, place cap on the pen and say goodbye to all the writers of examinations and leaves the class in a normal silence. And cruel part arrives when students discuss question paper in front of them. Periodic promises happens again of studying hard upcoming season. But the truth is unless until one sees big loss, he/she doesn't leaves his/her one night study plan.

Thank you for reading.
Peace out for today.

Theory of Emotion

Ever since time started showing me the bitter truth concealed beneath the epidermis of the most beautiful things, I've seen people trapped in the web of emotions. While emotions may seem to be natural for most of us humans, it is necessary to understand what actually emotions are, what triggers them and what are its impacts. You are more likely to be happy on a rainy day than on a hot and humid day. Emotions are an excuse to either boost up your efforts (example, happiness) or make your day worse (example, jealousy, hatred, sadness, guilt). Whether they (emotions) exist or not, they wont help us at all. Positive and negative makes NULL. A man who creates a threat to the society and later on saves it isn't considered a hero. Same is the case with emotions. Although certain emotions may have positive impacts (example, happiness), but the negatives compensate its positives. People who claim to be in a certain emotional state should understand that they're just being carried away by the emotional current. The question that'd pop up in your mind would be, what is emotional current; its obvious. Emotional current is a group of factors which triggers your pituitary to make you believe that you are in a certain state of emotion. Mostly it is impossible to notice, as the contributing factors might be as unnoticeable as the smell of rain, or the blowing wind, the orange sunlight, the melody of songs, a colour, and every little thing that combine to form an emotional current. Lets consider a practical case of an emotional current. Many of you might have noticed that people tend to disclose their secrets or confess the most emotional things on a windy evening, or after listening to an emotional song, or talking to a loved one. Now the unnoticed factors that make the emotional current in this case is the blowing wind, the orange sun of the evening, the melody of the song, the feeling of wellness while talking to a loved one, etc. These unnoticed factors make the emotional current and people are carried away by it. As said earlier, emotions are just like ice in water, it just pretends to be useful. So on a closing note, what i want to say is that things are presented to us as an illusion. The simplest of things clog to make the most complex circumstances, be it as natural as emotions. Be good, stay blessed.

Thank you for reading.
S.A.C. out for today.