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Me: hey, nice whatsapp status, it is that song *** naa?

Frnd: yep

Me: Another phrase of that song is also good!

Frnd: ( wait a minute, i was angry with you, shitt)ttyl!

Me: ahahahahahahaha, what happened?

Frnd: Nothing.( you have to make many things clear between us! )

And conversation continued.

Hello friends,
Happy Diwali on first place,
So today i would like to write about a very common thing familiar to you as a word named "Honesty". So there comes a question in my mind that,"Am i honest?".
Without answering this question i would like to know( or let you know ) that,"Honesty to who, what, whom?". So basic idea is that "be honest", but many people say that it is not that much easy to be honest to everybody, as many of us know that "some kind of" honest truth hurts. But that's not the motive, the motive is to make things clear. The longer you try to hide things in the blanket of lie, more hurtful that information becomes. Then another thing comes in mind that "Time Heals", as many of us think that if we would hide this or that from one, he/she will neglect when time leaves the topic. But the concept of "Time Healing" would work only when the hidden stuff has injured, i.e. healing works when there is a injury, fresh injury requires time not an unoriginated one. I know words confuse but the main thing is to understand the value of honesty as soon as possible.
There comes a small thought in my mind that, lets not be honest to others, lets be honest to ourself. My father used to say to me whenever he caught me wasting time, that," you son! You are not fooling me! You're fooling yourself.". The above words are quite familiar to many of us cause it is "National Dhamki" from our lovely Indian parents. So this thing is associated with me, cause I'm fooling myself, if so then i must stop making fool of myself. So from this point it is clear that to learn honesty we should start testing it on ourself.
Another example of my life comes in terms of honesty that it make us stand aside of everybody. People like/love more honest person than a liar one(Obviously). So the day i was chatting with one of my friend after long time and we were chatting normally and it was clear from our conversation that my friend was not talking normal to me.

The learning part behind that conversation was the truthfulness of my best friend. So don't hide things, even emotions just laugh it off on the person. Hiding emotions is dishonesty to yourself. So don't be Dishonest!! Especially to yourself.
Thank you!
Peace out!!✌
Editing Credits: Sohail Ahmed Choudhury